Ето кой да последвате - красавицата, която не крие своите стрии и отпуснат корем и всички я харесват заради това

Майка, активист и вдъхновение, тя доказва, че най-важно е да обичаме себе си

Силвия Канин
Силвия Канин 13 май 2020

Може ли жената да се нарече красива ако има несъвършено тяло?

Знаем колко нелепо звучи този въпрос, но той се ражда от безумното време, в което живеем... Днес на мода са тела, които нямат нищо общо с реалността и лица, които се видоизменят всеки ден, за да приличат на Instagram звезди с милиони последователи. 

В графата на много популярните в интернет пространството, с цели 1.3 милиона последователи в Instagram, попада и една майка, която печели овациите на другите не с тънкото си кръстче и дупе като на бразилска карнавална танцьорка, а със своите стрии, отпуснат корем и целулит по дупето. 

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⁣ Hard truths: I liked being thinner because clothes fit me perfectly. I liked being thinner because men paid me more attention. I liked being thinner because people liked that I was thinner, and congratulated me often for it. ⁣ ⁣ Everything I liked about being thinner had really nothing to do with my actual body. ⁣ Because I can’t say I ever ended up finding much like for my body after all. ⁣ ⁣ Everything I liked about being thinner was more about being accepted by others than it was about accepting myself. ⁣ ⁣ Which reminds me that when thoughts creep in about wanting to be thinner, and the drastic unhealthy measures I know could take to get there, to pause and reflect that really it comes down to a innate desire to be accepted. ⁣ ⁣ So I’m sitting with that today. ⁣ ⁣ And I have to thank you, for showing me that while the relationship with myself is the core, that I can and will be accepted by people who will see me for more than my body. ⁣ I will find clothes that serve me, a man that gives me the right attention, congratulations for my healing and my purpose beyond my body. ⁣ ⁣ Embracing me, an ever-changing, gaining and losing, ebbing and flowing me... has brought about the most genuine of relationships I could ever have.

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Тук можете да слушате подкаста на Сара - The Papaya Podcast

Сара е истинска красавица, която е в ролята на социален активист, който зорко брани правото на жените да се чувстват красиви в несъвършените си тела. Почти всеки нейн пост е послание за кураж към всички онези, които се чувстват отхвърлени, непривлекателни и притиснати от очакванията на обществото. 

Показвайки своите стрии, и отпусната кожа, Сара ни кара да се радваме, че има и истински жени с милиони последователи.

С лозунги като "обличам се за себе си, а не за другите" и "единственото мнение за тялото ми, което има значение е моето собствено", канадската красавица ни кара да изпитваме чувство на гордост и любов, взирайки се в несъвършенствата си в огледалото. 

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We’re in a pressure cooker. ⁣ ⁣ There’s no real other way to describe this time. ⁣ ⁣ Tension and stress is building within the walls of our lives where we are kept until this is finished. ⁣ ⁣ In all our years of dating, then into marriage just over a year ago, I don’t know that there’s been this much time together. Especially not as a family. The blended, custody-shared family that we are. So needless to say I was nervous for how this would all work. ⁣ ⁣ It’s hard to speak positively into a circumstance that is killing thousands, financially burdening many, and creating a friction in society that we’ve never known before. ⁣ ⁣ The pressure, collectively, is building. ⁣ ⁣ But, if I may, I have to share where it’s releasing, too. ⁣ ⁣ And that seems to be happening for us. Not all the time. Not every moment. But in great blips of release. ⁣ ⁣ Maybe I just had a good day, I dunno. ⁣ ⁣ I live with a lot of guilt that I’m in a healthy relationship now. It wakes me at night thinking of the sadness and fear that others are living with everyday, now more than ever. I’m often scared to show or say how happy we are, how well this is working out, for fear of it being salt in another’s wound. ⁣ ⁣ But I stand on the other side of divorce, remarriage and blending a family. ⁣ ⁣ I have to show you, that even in a hellish pressure cooker of a situation, you can have safety, respect, joy and laughter. ⁣ ⁣ I have to bring it up, so that more know what is possible. ⁣ ⁣ Perhaps I’m speaking to a silent audience. One that I know is there, in their own pressure cookers, not with any release. ⁣ ⁣ I just need you to know an example of the other side. ⁣

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